Think About it -- Peace, Like a River
In the 1990’s, Dr. Richard Tedeschi pioneered a scientific study called, “Post Traumatic Growth.” Post Traumatic Growth (PTG) is the mental experience of positive change that occurs in the struggle of aftermath of a traumatic event. PTG is a pathway to resilience. It helps survivors manage future trauma. It seems to me, PTG also helps them to help others.
Dr. Tedeschi now specializes in bereavement and trauma, serving as the professor emeritus at the University of North Carolina, Charlotte and many other positions of distinction in the mental health profession. One of which is his guidance in the arena of trauma and resilience for the American Psychological Association.
I am reminded of the trauma endured by Horatio Spafford in the late 1,800’s. First his son died, then he lost his wealth in the big Chicago fire of 1871.
By 1873 he had recovered (resiliency) enough to meet the need for his remaining family to enjoy an overseas excursion from America to England. When the time came however, for them to board the S.S. Ville du Havre bound for England, Horatio had to stay behind to deal with a last-minute business development. He assured them he would come a few days hence.
On November 22nd however, the S.S. Ville du Havre was struck by another ship and sank. When survivors were able to contact their loved ones by cable across the ocean, Horatio received a short message from his wife that she was, “saved alone.”
He got on a ship and started to her. As he passed the approximate location where his 4 daughters had died, he penned the words to the song, “It is Well, With my Soul.”
Think About it
Do you want to drag others down or lift them up? That choice is yours to make, starting with how you view yourself and your circumstances.
I have never been forced to make room in my heart for PTSD. I saw good people die and it hurt. But how dare I internalize that grief? That is sacred ground for others.
So, I made room for PTG in their honor. If all we can do is stand for them, then stand we shall.
When peace, like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, thou hast taught me to say,
It is well, it is well with my soul.
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